Choose to heal, not to hurt. Choose to forgive not to despise. Choose to persevere not to quit. Choose to smile not to frown. Choose to love not to hate. What really matters in the end is not what we bought, but what we built, not what we got, but what we shared, not our competence but our character, and not our success but our significance. Live a life that matters. Live a life that cares. Be yourself.