Once you have given up on yourself, and your surroundings, mentally and internally and stop fighting against the struggles that life puts in front of you, you will slowly succumb to the slow and lonely demise of an unfortunate fate. Only when you stand up and confront life's hurdles, will you regain the internal strength and happiness that not only you deserve but those who are near you also do just as much. Because your fate and emotions are just as responsible for theirs as much as yours is to yourself.