You have to learn how to love people, it is not something easy. That is why so many of us constantly fail at it, we want a chance at the test - relationship, and have not even studied yet, not even that, sometimes we grow up in homes where we don't even have a teacher. Love does not consist of cheating, lying, stealing, and disrespect. But support, trust, honesty, giving, faithfulness, and most importantly GOD.