Wednesday, August 31, 2011

If you are single, people ask about fiance. When you have a fiance, they ask for wedding. When you get married, they ask for children. Once you have one, they ask for another. if you get divorced, they ask why. If you try to start your life again, they ask why so quickly. People never like what you do, so why worry about what they think or talk about you?
Give yourself to someone who knows exactly what they have, when they have you. Not someone who will realize it after they have lost you.

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Some people are just stupid. They have the best thing in front of them, but they turn around and choose the worst instead.
There is a point in everyone's life when they ask "Will I be happy?". Questioning this once, questioning this twice. Never once do we stop to think, why are not we happy? If we can find the problem, then we are one step closer to finding the solution.
Trust the Past to God's Mercy, the Present to God's Love and the Future to God's Providence.
Relationships of all kinds are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.
Sometimes in life you got to choose what you want instead of what other people want from you. You have to push away the people in your life and focus on yourself. In general they say follow your heart but sometimes you got to use your brain a little more.
Know your worth, respect yourself always!!! Be the person that everyone wants & not the person that everyone had!!!
Time to Update, Part Two. By Dan Polimino. http://ping.fm/ufrxj
Life is also like Facebook. People will like your problems & comment, but no one will solve them because everyone is busy updating theirs.
Trusting your mind is sitting in the middle of the forest waiting for rescue. Trusting your heart is a dive into rapid waters down a river to some form of safety. You choose which to trust.

Monday, August 29, 2011

Someday everything will make perfect sense. So for now laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears, and keep reminding yourself, everything happens for a reason.
People create unhealthy habits in their minds from past impressions in life. To get out of the cycle of ignorance, we will constantly have to remind ourselves, that we are God's highest & best creation.
Silence is worth a million words, but those millions of words mean nothing, unless that silence is the truth your voice was too afraid to say.
The right temperature in a relationship is maintained by WARM HEARTS, not by HOT HEADS.
Sometimes just when you think things are blue & gloomy something or someone comes into your life & turns it all around. Then the sun shines, the darkness ends & a new life begins. So ride the ups & downs of life & remember you will always come up on top. You can get through anything & you never know what can happen the next day. Be ready for surprises & adventure. Life will bring you the unexpected!
Rather then wasting time regretting something, enjoy the present to its fullest because flowers in full bloom do not last forever.
Do not look down on others, you will only see their feet.
Just think, you are not here by chance, but by God's choosing. His hand formed you and made you the person you are. He compares you to no one else - you are one of a kind. You lack nothing that His grace cannot give you. He has allowed you to be here at this time in history to fulfill His special purpose for this generation.

Sunday, August 28, 2011

Tears are sometimes an inappropriate response to death. When a life has been lived completely honestly, completely successfully, or just completely, the correct response to death's perfect punctuation mark is a smile.
Always remember when you have no one to count on that you can always count on yourself. If you rely on yourself you know you always have someone to count on.
If you step back and take a look at yourself, the next step you take forward will be your best one.
Always keep a calm mind, it is our inner happiness. By letting go of our flaws, mistakes and criticism within our thoughts, we will free yourselves of the world's problems. Just let everything simply exist beautiful through you.
Never hate the time where you failed. These are the times where you show the world that failures do not define you, but what makes you stronger.
Those who pass away leave us with a emptiness in our hearts but strength in knowing another angel is watching over of us.
Do not be afraid of death, be afraid of a life not lived well.

Saturday, August 27, 2011

What people need to learn is to love people and use things, instead of using people and loving things.
Being with no one is better than being with the wrong one, sometimes those who fly alone have the strongest wings.
You have a special place in the world. All you have to do is find it. Do not give up on yourself, on the truths you have realized. Do not give in to those who would crush your dreams. And never turn away from forever love, care, and affection.
Never put yourself in a situation, where you are not sure of where you stand in a person's life.
When you want something in life, try not to make it your only priority. Just act casual on it, and I assure you, you will reach it soon.
Every day is one step closer to being stronger then you were yesterday. Now is the time to be strong, so forget what happened in the past and live in the moment. It is true that the past is what made you who you are today, but it does not decide who you will be tomorrow.

Friday, August 26, 2011

Acceptance is not about denying, numbing or hiding, it is about struggling, surrendering & finally transforming through the power of grace. Life's burdens come with emotion anger, guilt and grief. When we try to bury feelings that frighten us with their wildness. They may erupt with destructive force or we may slowly deaden ourselves to any feeling.
Life does not just happen. It is a journey that is planned for and prayed about every day. If you lose sight of your destination, do not be afraid to seek guidance. Asking for help shows maturity, not weakness.
Do not think about the few things you did not get after praying. Think about the countless beautiful things God gave you without asking.
Remember that people who are too weak to follow their own dreams will always find a way to discourage yours. Ignore them!
There will always be a time when you need to give up, not because you cannot, but because your time and your efforts are not worth it.
When trust has become little to none, courage has become rare, and when anger and sadness have grown. It is times like these where you find out who the strong ones really are.

Thursday, August 25, 2011

If you are not being treated with the love and respect you deserve, check your "PRICE TAG". Perhaps you have marked yourself down. It is you who tell people what your worth is by what you accept. Value yourself more and show them what you are capable of.
A man/woman may fall many times but he/she will not be a failure until he/she says someone pushed him/her.
We may learn wisdom - By reflection, which is noblest. By imitation, which is easiest. By experience, which is the bitterest.
Belief is your truth. What you believe is what your life is today. To change your life, simply change your beliefs!
A man who treats a woman like a princess is proof that he has been born and raised in the arms of a queen.
As a person you develop yourself by those who you surround yourself with. Find friends that will help you & not hurt you, who will build you up & not bring you down. People who have goals & not just the people who only hang around and use you for what you have - Positive Influences.
Be careful who you open up to. Only a few people actually care, the rest are just curious.
Everybody say, "You don't know what you got until its gone". But the truth is, "You knew exactly what you had, you just thought you did never lose it".
Those with the best intentions and with there hearts in the right place, always end up being blamed for having to defend their best intentions, other peoples actions, and essentially end up loosing out for having a heart and wanting to do the right thing. So why bother?

Wednesday, August 24, 2011

You may not be perfect in all what you do, but remember, you can defeat imperfection, when you get yourself involved & do things with complete determination & interest. Then everything you do results in perfection. Never give a chance for anyone to find fault in you and give a negative feedback always. Correcting yourself & being perfect is much appreciated when compared to being hurt by someone everyday.
Do not respect someone for making a promise. Respect them for keeping it.
Recipe to Happiness - Never Hate, Live Simple, Expect a Little, Give a Lot, Always Smile, Live with Love, and Be with God.
Your Independence in the world is Dependent on your Dependence on God.
No matter how down you may be, there will always be someone who will unintentionally make you smile again.
To those who truly believe in a wish coming true, I dedicate this hopeful advice to you - When you pick out your wish that comes from your heart's dream, always believe in them no matter how far or how hard to reach they may seem.
If you get a change to go back and regret for all the mistakes you made in the past, you should not do it, because that is what made me who you are today.

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

When we are standing at the cross-roads of our lives, and we realize that our loved ones have abandoned us, it is time we moved on alone. When our loved ones chose not to be with us during troubled times, they do not deserve to share our best moments too!!!
No matter what you have been through, somewhere out there, the person who truly cares, is waiting to make it better. Get it right this time!
Do not be afraid of shadows, they just mean there is a light shining somewhere near.
When you were born you cried and the world rejoiced, live your life in such a way that when you die the world cries and you rejoice.
If you can squash the 'I' under foot and replace it with 'He'/'She', all things would be set right.
Do not be fooled by praises, the call for your head may be on the way.
Before you search for the best things in life, you have to make the best of what you already have.

Monday, August 22, 2011

When something happens to you, consider what it means. There is a purpose to life's events, to teach you how to laugh more or not to cry too hard.
Just because someone lost your trust before, that does not mean you have to stop yourself from giving it to the right people in the future. It is hard, but trust is what builds foundations, and once that foundation is built, not man, not woman, nor any situation can destroy it.
Your mistakes should be your motivation, not your excuses.
You are never wrong when you judge others. Your mistake is when your judgement exceeds your expectations.
Look at life this way, what you heard with your ears yesterday but do not witness with your eyes today, does not go about gossiping it with your mouth tomorrow, because minding your own business will definitely keep you out of other people's troubles in the future.
Trust the one who can see these 3 things in you - Sorrow behind your Smile, Love behind your Anger, and Meaning behind your Silence.
It is not always about trying to fix something broken. It is about starting over, and creating something better.

Sunday, August 21, 2011

Sometimes all you can do is not think, not wonder, not obsess, not imagine. Just breathe, breathe in, breathe out. Everything works out in the end, and the more time you spend worrying about it, the longer it takes for things to end just the way they should.
Apologizing does not always mean you are wrong and the other person is right. It just means that you value your relationship more than your ego.
If your life has no "regrets", no "what ifs", no "if onlys" then you have probably had no life at all.
Feelings come and go, and when they come, a good use can be made of them. But they can never be our regular spiritual diet.
Do not wait on the explanation of others to find the answer to your problems. You have to look inside yourself to find the answer that is right for you. Although it may take a few tries, if are willing and patient enough you will find the correct one.

Saturday, August 20, 2011

If you don't feel something, don't say you do. If you don't like or against something, then speak out your mind. If you hate someone, keep your distance. If someone tries to bring you down, it is because they are already below you. If someone pressures you to do something, with a firm voice say what you want. Life is a divine chaos, embrace it. People are only as happy as they allow themselves to be.
Trust enables you to put your deepest feelings and fears in the palm of your partner's hand, knowing they will be handled with care.
Just because someone hurt you yesterday does not mean you should start living life today in constant fear of being hurt tomorrow.
You cannot choose what you have, but you can choose to be thankful and start to enjoy what you have.
Happiest people are those who are fighting through the pain to make others happy.
Pain is not our enemy. It is what helps form us into who we are, so you can change pain into whatever you want it to be, hurting or helpful.
Take chances, a lot of them. Because honestly no matter where you end up and with who, it always ends up the way it should be. Your mistakes make you who you are. You learn and grow with each choice you make. Everything is worth it. Say how you feel, always be you, and be okay with it.

Friday, August 19, 2011

Don't gain the world, and lose your soul, wisdom is better than silver or gold.
The face can speak a thousand emotions, but it can easily mask what the heart truly feels. Do not be fooled. For the happiest face maybe masking the most hurting heart.
Every single one of those people that mistreated you and walked out of your life only made room for new ones just waiting to walk in and treat you right.
A third person never creates a problem between two people, but a problem between two people creates space for third person.
Some people we cannot fix, and the only reason they do not change and stop treating you like nothing is because they know you are going to stay. They do not think you are smart enough to go. How about you just prove them wrong and leave. It is hard but it is worth it.
Ignore all hatred and criticism. Live for what you create, and die protecting it.
PEACE - it does not mean to be in a place where there is no trouble, noise, or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.

Thursday, August 18, 2011

10 Tips on How to Stay Emotionally Healthy

1. Laugh often - Emotional benefits of laughter include feeling a sense of contentment and joy, shifting your perspective to a positive outlook, giving you more courage and hope, dissolving tense situations, and improving overall mood.

2. Do frequent feelings checks - Determine how you feel when you wake up in the morning. If the feeling is negative, figure out what is causing it and take steps to resolve the unsettling situation. Reorient your emotions with affirmations and confidence to set a new tone for the day. Recognize any physiologic clues your body gives off as evidence of emotional stress.

3. Focus on the positive - Admit any negative feelings you may have, deal with them, and move on. Do not dwell on circumstances from the past or those you cannot control. Say positive affirmations and keep inspirational quotes handy. Remember that what you focus on is what you will attract in life, so put your energy toward that which you desire, not what you do not want.

4. Take care of your physical self - The mind/body connection refers to how your body responds to the way you think, feel, and act. If you are physically healthy, your emotions will tend to be high. Bodily dis-ease or illness can create a slippery slope of negative emotions which self-perpetuate other physical problems, such as insomnia, upset stomach, and general aches and pains. Respect your body by exercising, eating nutritious foods, and getting proper rest.

5. Perform relaxation exercises - Dealing with emotional ups and downs can be exhaustive and confusing. Allow your body and mind to create a blank slate so that your intentions to heal the situation can come from a place of clarity, insight, and faith instead of fear or despair. Invest time and energy into practices such as yoga, meditation, deep breathing, Reiki, sea salt baths, and massage.

6. Stay socially connected - Involving yourself in projects and activities with family, friends, or the general community is a strong aspect of wellness at any age. Pick an interest that you would like to learn more about, join a club focused on that particular hobby, and form connections with those involved. Social networking websites also offer an outlet for creating relationships based on similar interests.

7. Practice mindfulness - Mindfulness is the state of being fully aware of your thoughts, feelings, and actions at any given wakeful moment. Living in the here and now is a powerful self-growth tool. You begin to learn that the feelings you experience are ever-changing, you discover underlying destructive patterns that you may not have noticed before, and you evolve by changing those fixed patterns into more dynamic approaches.

8. Channel your feelings productively - If you feel acutely angered or overwhelmed, instead of harboring negative emotions, release built-up tension through activities such as running, writing in a journal, or transforming stress into motivation to achieve your goals.

9. Avoid all or nothing thinking - Thinking in terms of black and white absolutes instead of shades of grey is a common element of depression. Words like disastrous, terrible, ruined, and never should be red flag signs that you may be thinking catastrophically. Situations may be unfortunate, but not a complete end-of-the-world disaster. Consider the point that even smart people do not always make the best choices. You can learn from your mistakes and consciously choose a healthier path next time.

10. Begin a personal development journey - If you are ready and willing to heal your life, realize that you are in the driver's seat. Think of ways to improve yourself, your relationships, and your overall life every day. Choose thoughts, feelings, and actions that are aligned with truth, love, and power.
Everyone does not have your best intention at heart, some people want what you have - relationships, money, family, and friends. Do not give them those things, but you can give them and show them something you have - God!
As a tree is judged by its fruits, so as a person is recognized through his/her actions. If you do good, you become the good person. If you do evil, you are the bad person. So whatever character you possess now, is nothing but, what you have actually stored up in your heart. Clean your heart, mind and always keep them occupied with good things. God Bless!
There will always be obstacles in our path. They can be stumbling blocks or stepping stones. The choice is ours.
In all aspects of life - family, friendship or love, be careful of what you throw away or have no use for. Remember, one person's trash is another person's treasure.
Don't wish it were easier, wish you were better. Don't wish for fewer problems, wish for more skills. Don't wish for less challenges, wish for more wisdom.
Everybody will not understand everything because everything is not meant for everybody. Get what is for you, let the rest go.
If someone has something bad to say about you, it is probably because they have nothing good to say about themselves.

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Your confidence may be low, your standards not high, your doubts raised to the sky, life may get you down, maybe sometimes to the deep dark ground, but when life is the worst and it seems like no one is there when you need to shed a tear,
there is someone above who is ready to hear
your hurt voice, when you need someone to listen
He will be always be waiting for you with His outstretched arms to embrace you.
Do not get depressed when people insult you, persecute you and say evil about you. It is very common in this world, that good people are not recognized, when compared to people who do evil. The right time will come, where God will make them realize their mistake. Rejoice in God because He has great rewards for you in heaven.
When it is there it is not valued! When it is not there it is worth a million!!!
I am better than this, I am better than that. Keep telling yourself, you can do better, and not only will you be better, you will get better.
We are responsible for what we are, and whatever we wish ourselves to be. We have the power to make ourselves. If what we are now has been the result of our own past actions, it certainly follows that whatever we wish to be in the future can be produced by our present actions. So we have to know how to act now. If other people can shine, why can't we? We are the change to whatever we wish to happen.
Sometimes, God pushes us to our limits. It is because He has greater faith in us than we have in ourselves.

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Laughter can heal anything, even if it is for a short time. Never miss a chance too laugh, a real laugh. Because some days, even the tough ones, all you need is a smile and a little hope too get you through.
There are things we do not want to happen, but we have to accept. Things we do not want to know,but have to learn, and people we cannot live without, but have to let go.
You have to learn how to love people, it is not something easy. That is why so many of us constantly fail at it, we want a chance at the test - relationship, and have not even studied yet, not even that, sometimes we grow up in homes where we don't even have a teacher. Love does not consist of cheating, lying, stealing, and disrespect. But support, trust, honesty, giving, faithfulness, and most importantly GOD.
You never deserve to be treated wrong. You never deserve to be called names, and yelled at, and disrespected. But things happen, and it is our choice to make a bold decision to either be developed by it or to be destroyed by it.
You have the ability to succeed in anything you attempt. Sometimes the hardest part is getting started. We all have the spark within us to do something great. We just have to find the right motivation and determination to get the fire ignited.
Just because you got your heart broken does not mean you are not strong, it means your stronger then ever, never let anyone bring you down, take your heart and never give it back, just remember God would not give you anything you could not handle. So just when you think things cannot get any worse, everything will be okay in the end, if it is not okay then it is not the end we need to inspire each other.
Never regret for what you lost in the past, because once in a while, time conspires with the future to return to you what you lost in the past.
No matter how good or bad you think life is, wake up each day and be thankful for life. Someone somewhere else is fighting to survive.

Monday, August 15, 2011

Never choose the easy path, choose the one that has morals! It is your life, live it! Be honest, follow your heart, and do the right thing! God sees and knows all!
When you are feeling down, take a walk down memory lane. And you will see you laughed more than you cried.
Never go to sleep angry. Because you never know if you or the person you are mad at will wake up the next morning. Always forgive someone. Because you never know if you will talk to them again. Things happen. Get over it. Always forgive. You may not forget. But it is better than knowing you will never get to say sorry.

Sunday, August 14, 2011

There comes a point in life when you get tired of chasing everyone, and trying to fix everything. But it is not giving up. It is realizing that you don't need certain people and their crap.
Everyone needs that bad relationship in their life, just to know how it feels to have a good one the next time around.
Doing good to someone who have done good things to you is a great deed. But, doing good to those who have done evil to you is the greatest deed. Normally during times like that, we get angry and we will find for situations to take revenge on them. But that is not God wants us to do. Always think that God's love is within you and do good to all people with love.
Everything in this world can be an inspiration, never let go of it. Every moment that passes is precious and irreplaceable. Every person you meet is a gift so value his presence. Everything that happens in life has a purpose so enjoy life to the fullest.
Sometimes, you have to pretend that you are happy and fine, until you realize that your pretending has become your strength to move on.
Sometimes your heart and your mind are the last things you want to follow. Realize that we are all only human, and it is in our nature that we do not know everything. So likely the best thing to follow if you do not know where to go is Jesus.
The most important thing in a relationship is not trust, nor hope, nor honesty, nor respect, nor faith in each other, it is GOD. All the other things come with Him.
Approach God with complete confidence in Him and ask anything according to His will. He will hear you and if God has heard your prayers, then He will surely grant all your needs. Remember that a confident approach is very very important when we pray to God. Start praying with confidence and receive the blessing.

Friday, August 12, 2011

Just because you are not winning the argue, does not mean you lost your self-respect. Remember that sometimes silence is golden, and speech is just a cheap stone.
If you want a happy ending in life, then it depends on where you stop your life story.
There is always a Truth behind "Just Kidding", a little Emotion behind "I Don't Care", a little Pain behind "It's Ok", a little "I Need You" behind "Leave Me Alone" and a lot of Words behind "The Silence".
Everyone's not afraid of trying again. They are just afraid of getting hurt for the same reason. But life is simply unpredictable. You will never get the answers to your questions until you learn to risk some things.

Thursday, August 11, 2011

If you don't deserve a thing, try how you will get it. If you still don't have, check out how long it will take for you to have it. Nourish what you have, take what you still don't have & keep what you get. Do not commit yourself with feelings, for feelings will just come and go. Commit yourself with responsibility for it will last long. Take it or leave it. That is the real meaning of "LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT".
Do not be afraid to make mistakes, to stumble and fall, because most of the time the greatest rewards come from doing the things that scare you the most. Maybe you will get everything you wish for. Maybe you will get more than you could imagine. Who knows where life could take you. The road is long and in the end the journey is the destination.
Amazingly, a few words break a heart. Amusingly, countless words heal the same heart. And if they are just words, our hearts must be made thinner than glass or stronger than diamond. But it is we who decide to be a fragile glass or one precious diamond.
We only live life once so make every single step you take worth it. Have no regrets, trust no male, and fear no female. You have been blessed with a Mom and Dad who gave you life, it is up to you to make something out of it.
Always control your emotion when someone is bullying you, and the secret there to control it, is not to care the person, and walk away.
Looking back at what you HAD is a simple reminder of all the better things you HAVE.

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Try smiling to every person you see, no matter if you like them or not or if you know them or not. Just smile and maybe say something nice and you will see that you can be the reason someone has a nice day. Try it and you will see how it may change your point of view and it will make the best out of you.
There are so many reasons in life which makes us cry, but it is better to show life you can smile more than it makes you cry.
God is the foundation of our life. We should listen to His commands and should always put them into practice, so that God's verse can change things in our life. As the wise men who build his house upon the rock, we should build our belief in every word of God. If you do so, no harm or destruction can near you.
When we are weak, we accuse and blame; growing stronger we become able to forgive; once we are strong, we discover that there is nothing to forgive.
Forgiving is not always easy, it is a very bold choice. Whatever kind of choice it is, it will always lead you to a more peaceful heart. It always will leave you happier and free to move on to create healthier relationships with others and with yourself.
A single logic to stop getting hurt is by believing that NOTHING IS MINE.
No one is born happy, but all of us are born with the ability to create happiness.

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Everyone has their own story, a reason they are the way they are. So you have no right to judge someone you do not know.
What matters is that, you are happy. If some people don't understand their own blessings, don't count on them to understand yours either.
The Foreclosures Are Not Coming. By Dan Polimino. http://ping.fm/PMBLe
The best thing to give to your enemy is forgiveness; to an opponent is tolerance; to a friend is your heart; to your child is a good example; to a father is the meaning of an amazing child; to your mother is conduct that will make her proud of you; to yourself is respect; to all is patience.
Life is a question, nobody can answer it. Death is an answer, nobody can question it.

Monday, August 8, 2011

There are times to stay put, and what you want will come to you, and there are times to go out into the world, and find such a thing for yourself.
The word of God is forever alive and active to create miracles in your life. Every word of God is sharper than a sword and it penetrates into your mind and soul. Open your heart and mind, whenever you read the Bible, so that the verses can heal your sickness, comfort you, correct you and guide you. So give room in your heart for God's words and you will surely see a massive change in your life.
The minute you start caring what other people think, is the minute you stop being yourself.
A female can be your best friend, worst enemy, or your worst nightmare. It all depends on how you treat her!
Every person should have a goal, a vision, a direction in life. Those who do not are standing in a room full of darkness with zero hopes of ever finding the light switch.

Sunday, August 7, 2011

Life kicks around sometimes. It scares you and beats you up. But there is one day you will realize you are not just a survivor but a fighter. Consider yourself tougher than anything life throws your way, and you will be.
Missing someone gets easier everyday because even though you are one day further from the last time you saw them, you are one day closer to the next time you will.
Daughters and sons of God, be glad that He lives among us. Do you realize and believe that God is present everywhere and He guides you wherever you go? If you believe, then stop worrying about the upcoming difficulties like financial issues or any other matter that troubles you. Be glad that the living God is with you to support and protect you.
If what you see by the eye does not please you, then close your eyes, and see from the heart. Because the heart can see beauty, and love more than the eyes can ever wonder.
Some people are so narrow minded that they fail to see the broader picture, they complain everyday that nothing is going on right, but they do not realize that by simply waking up, each day is a blessing, and they are alive.
If you are alone, I will be your shadow. If you want to cry, I will be your shoulder. If you want a hug, I will be your pillow. If you need to be happy, I will be your smile. But anytime you need a friend, I will just be me. Happy Friendship Day to all my friends across the globe!
Do not worry if people walk out of your life, they are just leaving the door open, and making way for a better person to walk in.

Saturday, August 6, 2011

Do not worry about your weaknesses. God's grace can turn all your weaknesses into effectiveness. Tell your weaknesses to God and He will make you delightful. All your weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions and difficulties will vanish in seconds, when God commands His power on you. Receive the power and implement it wherever needed.

Friday, August 5, 2011

With patience, the impossible can become possible. With faith, the unbelievable can become believable. With hope, you can hold on tightly even though it seems that all strength is gone. But with love, you begin to realize why it all matters.
Whatever you are physically, male or female, strong or weak, ill or healthy, all those things matter less than what your heart contains. If you have the soul of a warrior, you are a warrior. All those other things, they are the glass that contains the lamp, but you are the light inside.
Sometimes there is nothing to be said. Sometimes nothing should be said. You just have to find someone who will not get away from you. Someone to look into your eyes and tell you it is okay that things do not always go right. That this is how life works and how it will always work. That it is not going to be easy. Today, tomorrow, the next day, but it will somehow get better.

Thursday, August 4, 2011

We always have choices about life. It is important to trust our deep intuition more than our knowledge of information because only we have the power to decide on our life. It is important to trust our inner aesthetics. Then doing will become being, being will become doing, we become ourselves.
Skip the sadness, forget the pain, play happily, have perceptions, help someone, smile at people. Hug your friends and cry on their shoulders. Do not be afraid, have courage, compass your steps and make jokes, laugh loud. Yesterday is gone. You are here now to do tomorrow things. If someone like you so much, it is gratitude for all things you have done today.
Behind every person who looks happy with all those smiles, there is a person, who made that person good at pretending.
There is always good in people. You just need to find it. If you are not going to even bother to try, then you are the one who needs help.
If you do not go after what you want, you will never get it. If you do not ask, the answer is always no. If you never step forward, you will always be in the same place.

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

A kind, loving person can be identified without speaking a word. Just look in his/her eyes.
Many times when someone dislike you, it is not really you they dislike. It is the freedom of the things you do and the chances you take they dislike, because they do not have the guts to do the same.
It is easy to lose someone's trust, but very difficult to gain it back. Always remember, in life, temptations are put in front of us to challenge our loyalty and respect.
If you cannot find the right words to certain situations, just give a smile. Words may confuse, but a smile always convinces. :-)
Some of us just want people to care about us as much as we do to them. But the fact of the matter is that some people, no matter what actions you show them, will never appreciate what you do for them. But keep showing them love, God will handle them in the meanwhile, and will bless you when He's ready.
Always dream and shoot higher than you know you can do. Never bother just to be better than your contemporaries or predecessors. Try to be better than yourself.

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Trust in God and He will give you the strength and confidence to face anything in your life. No disaster will destroy you because God is with you. He will be with you when you are happy. He will be with you when you are sad. God is everywhere to protect you. Do not worry, you are under God's protection.
SMILE. It might not make your problems disappear, but it will stop people from asking what is wrong with you.
Do not go for looks, they can deceive. Do not go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
Erasers are not for people who make errors, but for people who are willing to correct their mistakes.
Everybody think they want to be different, but when someone find out how different they really are, they often desire to be like everybody else.

Monday, August 1, 2011

Relationships are like broken glasses. It is better to leave them broken than hurt yourself by trying to put the pieces back together.
The world will not care about your self-esteem, it will expect you to accomplish something even before you feel good about yourself.
Accepting one another, exactly how they are, is quite difficult for anyone. But God wants us to accept each others mistakes and forgive them. If you really think they are so bad, then give them a chance to change. Always remember that, even though we are sinners, God always accepts us as His beloved children. In the same way, forgive and accept one another. By doing so, you praise God.
Only when you are tested that you truly discover who you are, and who you can be. The person that you want to be does exist, somewhere in the other side of hard-work and faith, and belief and beyond the heartache and fear of what life has.
You are part of the puzzle of someone's life. You may never know where you fit but others will fill the holes in their lives with pieces of you. So if you run out of reasons to live, remember that someone's life may never be complete without you in it.
Having ability & intelligence is not the key. It is recognizing that ability, confessing it, appreciating it, developing it & then using it.