Focus on the Positive

If you try really hard, there is always something positive to be found in any situation. Pretend you are on a treasure hunt and search for any gold or jewels you can emphasize. Even a negative person has positive qualities. When a person is drowning in negativity, it can be difficult for them to see the positive. So often people focus on the negative aspects of themselves. They forget about all the great things they are doing. There is no doubt that sometimes a negative person does not want to see the positive. This might require him/her to shift his/her outlook. Negativity can become a habit and habits are hard to break. Be patient and gently remind your grumpy friend or family member to look for the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Hopefully, in his/her down time, he/she will begin to reflect on what you have said.

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