Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Be the person everyone wants, not the person that everyone had.
You need to be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve.
Distance is nothing but a test to see how far love can travel.
Rather than trying to find a point behind everything, try to find a purpose.
There is not always a happy story behind one's sweet smile and cheerful jokes. Dry eyes always does not mean dry pillows at night.
Always love the person who saw you when you were invisible.
What really matters is not the colour of your skin but the color of your character; not the language that you speak but the words that you use; not where you live but how you live; not how much you earn but what you do to earn; not where you are but how you got there; not that you are a human being but the kind of human being you are.

Monday, January 30, 2012

You can find happiness even in the darkest of times, only if you remember to turn on the light.
The most pathetic thing than telling lies is when you start believing in them.
Hang on to those special kind of people who in spite making a mistake, admit to it, and face the pain and trouble that comes with making amends. They might hurt you, but they will never make you heal alone.
It is not how much time you spent together, but what you built together that brings out the best in a relationship.
In order to achieve true success ask yourself 4 questions: Why? Why not? Why not me? Why not now?
If someone acts like you are not worth their time, maybe you are not what they want & you are just a replacement for what they cannot have.

Sunday, January 29, 2012

Don't try too hard to get even with those who hurt you, rather try hard to get even with those who helped you.
Many people will enter your life, few will stay. Several will claim they care, few really do. Many will walk by your side, few will leave footprints.
Sometimes tears become more special than a smile because smile can be given to anyone,
but tears are only for those people who we never want to loose.
Place your heart in the hands of God and He will place it in the hands of a person He believes deserves it.
Do or Die is an old concept. Do It Before You Die is the new concept.
Never blame people for disappointing you; blame yourself for expecting too much from them.

Saturday, January 28, 2012

There is no more unbalanced relationship than that between someone who is trustworthy and someone who pretends to be.
When you have tried something and failed, it does not make you a failure. The only time you become a failure is when you give up trying.
People hate you for 3 reasons: 1. They want to be you. 2. They hate themselves. 3. They see you as a threat.
People like to bring up your past, when your present and future looks better than theirs.

Friday, January 27, 2012

Our self worth cost more, then so many out there could ever afford.
Don't get so blinded by the light that you cannot see what is lurking in the shadows.
Whatever is your life right now, is what you make it! Do not blame anybody through your sufferings, instead blame yourself because at the end of the day, you are still the one who made the choice.
The type of people we allow into our lives says more about us than it does about them.
The best relationship is the one that never exposes the weaknesses of the one you love to anyone outside this relationship.
You need to correct someone for the sake of benefiting them, not for the sake of being the one to show your superiority in any way.

Thursday, January 26, 2012

At times we have to lose something precious in order to gain something priceless.
The person who you find it hardest to love is the one that needs it the most.
If you are lazy, you compare yourself with the worst. If you are hard working, you compare yourself with the best. If you are always happy, people compare themselves with you.

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Being stubborn is a double edged sword. You never know if it is a blessing or a curse.
Plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
The worst feeling in the world is to be in so much pain and to have nobody know that it is even hurting you.
The hardest part about growing up is letting go of what you were used to and moving on with something you are not.
Speaking little and listening much are virtues and real signs of maturity.

Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Your greatest downfall, is not realizing your own potential.
The only thing that stands between a person and what they want in life is the will to try it and the faith to believe.
At times being left with a lie is better than the truth, and being left with a question is better than the answer.
Wishes are always granted but you just have to wait for the perfect time.
When you enjoy the things you do, you are living the way God intended.
Intimacy is not simply physical. It is connecting with someone so deeply, you feel like your souls are united.
Love is a freedom to express how we feel, those who willingly give back what they have been given, will in return find an overwhelming abundance of it.

Monday, January 23, 2012

God will not take away a thing that is really for meant for you. But when He does, He will soon return it to you, by the time you are prepared enough to rightly handle it.
The healthiest form of revenge is Self Improvement.
Never hold on to someone that keeps giving you lot of reasons to let go.
You don't need someone to complete you, you only need someone to accept you completely.
Life is not about finding your "Soul Mate". It is about finding the person who make you feel like you are not alone.
TODAY'S TRIAL IS TOMORROW'S TESTIMONY.

Sunday, January 22, 2012

Think before you do something because the thing you do, may cause you to think more.
Make sure the last words you speak to anyone are your kindliest. Those words could be your long lasting impression.
Never chase love, affection or attention. If it is not given freely it is not worth having.
Never invest heavily in relations that will not last for long because relationships do not come with the 'Refund' option.
Never invest heavily in relations that will not last for long because relationships do not come with the 'Refund' option.
Cry as hard as you want to, but make sure that when you are finished, you never cry for the same reason again.

Saturday, January 21, 2012

Good company includes those who are in the state of gratitude. They are thankful for what they have and do not waste time complaining.
Let not your goals in life be a mission, but a vision. A person with a mission is only a small part of another person's vision.
There are many who are not as fortunate as you. Be grateful for your home, family and friends. It does not matter what someone else has.
Rather than trying to be someone's sun to brighten their day, try to be someone's moon so you can bring light in their darkest hours.

Friday, January 20, 2012

Your best efforts will never be enough when they are being wasted on the wrong person.
Friendship is not about who you have known the longest. It is about who walked into your life, saying "I am here for you" and proved it.
You cannot have a relationship without any fights. Just make sure you can make your relationship worth the fight.
Never underestimate one's struggle as they might seem an ordinary person with no trouble. Provide them with some warmth and that one good action might make them feel secure again with the value of feeling lovable.

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Never consider any relationship a waste of time. If it did not bring you what you want, it taught you what you don't want.
To achieve is more important than to accomplish. You can either choose to be a winner once or a hero forever.
Jealousy is the art of counting someone else's blessings instead of your own.
If you want something you have never had, then you have got to do something you have never done.
Don't give up on something you really want. It may be difficult to wait, but it is more difficult to regret.

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

When you forgive, you release the other, and when you forget, you release yourself.
You do not have to battle & struggle to change the circumstances of your life. All you have to do is give love through good feelings & what you want will appear.
There is nothing wrong in making mistakes. What is wrong is letting a mistake stay as a mistake, without the effort of making it right.
God's Present - those who came and stayed in our life. God's Lesson - those who came and walked out of our life.
Crying over something that you lost is not going to make it come back. Instead with every tear you lose a bit of yourself.
Don't get so busy with life that you forget how to live.

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

If you confuse the things you want with the things you need, you may find yourself empty handed.
Make your anger so expensive that no one can afford it and make your happiness so cheap people can almost get it for free.
Do not worry about what the future holds for you, just remember the ONE who holds it for you.
It is sad how some people are so stubborn & worried about what other people think, that they are willing to let happiness pass them by. People are always going to be judgemental, but at the end of the day it is all about you & who or what makes you truly happy.
Everyone deserves someone who knows how to make things up again after making you feel bad, not someone who is very good with just the word "Sorry".
When you find yourself in the position to help someone, be happy and feel blessed. It is because God is answering that person's prayer through you.
Too many possessions are always distracting. They take your attention away from what matters the most - The People.

Monday, January 16, 2012

Never want anything so badly that it hurts a lot if you do not get it.
Judging a person does not define them, it defines you.
Loving the wrong person does not mean you are stupid. It was stupid of that person not to appreciate your love.
Unexpressed or untold feelings are what make us the master of our silence but the slave to our heart.
Anyone can find an excuse but it takes a special person to find the time.
There will be increase in our ability, stability and responsibility when we increase our sense of accountability to God.

Sunday, January 15, 2012

Live a life in such a way that people long for your company when you are alive and weep over you when you die.
Sometimes you do not realize your own strengths until someone tries to take advantage of your weaknesses.
Never blame another person if you get hurt because you took the risk and you decided who was worth the try.
Don't live for compliments, instead live for accomplishments.
There is always a purpose to every failed relationship. The purpose is not to encourage you to lower your expectations, but to raise your standards.
People will gossip no matter how hard you try to avoid it. Make something great out of your life while others waste their life gossiping about yours.

Saturday, January 14, 2012

More then one hand will fit yours, but only your heart will know the most deserving.
Beautiful has nothing to do with looks. How you are as a person and how you make others feel about themselves is what makes you beautiful.
Seeing people change is not what hurts. What hurts is remembering who they used to be.

Friday, January 13, 2012

Revenge may look sweet, but forgiveness is healthier.
Don't bother apologizing if you are just going to continue doing the things you felt or said sorry for.
When you are at your very best, try helping those at their worst.

Thursday, January 12, 2012

Sacrifice is a selfless good deed. It looses its dignity if its value is measured by someone's approval or disapproval.
Just being there for someone can sometimes bring hope when all seems hopeless.
Happiness that is based on someone's pain, is the worst kind of happiness to have.
Silence of a genius is more dangerous than weapons with great noise. Patience of a good person is powerful than anger of thousands of fools.

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Happiness is when you feel fine despite empty pockets, when you enjoy life inspite of your problems, and above all, when you still know how to smile, pray and thank God, as well as appreciate every blessing He provides without fail, everyday of your life.
Sometimes you just need to distance yourself from people. If they care, they will notice. If they don't, you know where you stand.
Happiness gives more Energy. More Energy gives more Motivation. More Motivation gives more Confidence. More Confidence gives more Accomplishments. More Accomplishment gives Greatness. So Happiness = Greatness.
Just because we matter more to the people we care does not mean we have to be there all the time. Space and time makes mature beings, not because it is a necessity.
When we direct our thoughts properly, we can control our emotions. You affect your subconscious mind by verbal repetition.

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

The greatest weakness of most humans are their hesitancy to tell others how much they love and care for them while they are alive.
Genius is knowing to stay silent as others demonstrate their ignorance.

Monday, January 9, 2012

Best friends understand and remember when you say forget it, wait forever when you say just a minute and stay when you say leave me alone.
Do not be fooled by the words, gestures and promises you encounter. Most important are the actions shown, for they tell the truth of a person.
God has given everyone of us the power to make a crying person happy but not enough more to make a happy person cry.
Many people have ideas on how others should change, but very few people have ideas on how they themselves should change.
Faith and Hope will take you places where God's grace will keep you.
The more you sweat in practice, the less you bleed in battle.
Never get offended when people do not seem to get you right. Not everyone recognizes brilliance.
Sometimes reality tells us what is true, but the problem is we choose not to believe.
If you are not willing to risk it all, then you do not want it bad enough.

Sunday, January 8, 2012

Being honest may not get you a lot of friends, but at least it will get you the right ones.
Happy people do what they love with people they like whereas unhappy people do what they like with people they love.
Your blessing begins to multiple the moment you start to make meaningful use of them.
The first to apologize is the bravest, the first to forgive is the strongest, and the first to forget is the happiest.
When you forgive and forget people, they will definitely remember and regret.

Saturday, January 7, 2012

Always hold onto what you have got and never let your anger out on someone else. Otherwise you might lose what you have got and end up with nothing.
Better to have it and not need it, than to need it and not have it.
You cannot change other people, but you can change your life and inspire them.
All of us have needs and desires, but few realise that in order to obtain what we want, we must first surrender something of more interest or value.
L E A R N I N G is important in a relationship. It means Loving, Evolving, Adapting, Respecting, Negotiating, Indulging, Nurturing, Giving.

Friday, January 6, 2012

Being true to yourself is better than being a liar to impress someone.
Do not accept defeat until you have made your last attempt and never make your last attempt until you have succeeded.
There is a big difference between who we love, who we settle for and who we are meant for.

Thursday, January 5, 2012

When you are about to do something, THINK twice then ACT wise. If not you might end up losing the one that you value most.
A smiling face does not always signify the absence of problems, at times it signifies the ability to deal with them.
Bad things are always going to happen in life, people will hurt you. But you cannot use that as an excuse to hurt someone back.
Allow people to do what they want to do to you. One day you will be the busy one and they will crave for your attention.

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Don't seek approval for who you are, seek admiration for what you have accomplished.
Don't go that extra mile for someone who is not even worth the run.
Pressure makes us Stronger, Struggle makes us Hunger, Hard Lessons make the Difference and that Difference makes it Worth it.
When wrong choices create our past and destroy our present, we should remember we still own the future.
Jealousy Kills. Curiosity Kills. Depression Kills. Moral of this status - All Bad Feelings Kill.
There is no reason for you to settle for a life that is less than the one you are capable of dreaming.
Live without pretending, love without depending, speak without offending and listen without defending.

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

When you are down, you are not necessarily out. Use that time to plan your comeback.
There will always be a reason why you meet people. Either you need them to change your life or you are the one that will change theirs.
You know you have lived your life very well when you have nothing to be ashamed of and everything to be proud of.
Everything does not work out, but what does is what is meant for you.
One day you will be just a memory for some people. Do your best so that it remains a good one.
Love all the people God gave you, because He will need them back one day.
Sometimes God will make you see, where others could not even make you notice.
Family is not always blood connection. It is the people in your life who want you in theirs, the ones who accept you for what you are, the ones who would do anything to see you smile and who would love you no matter what.
You need to stop doing things for someone, when you find out it is Expected rather than Appreciated.

Monday, January 2, 2012

Life does not change but people do. Learn to accept that not everybody is who you thought you knew.
Failure is not lack of achievement, but the lack of appreciation of what you have already achieved.
Difference between LIKE and LOVE - If you like a flower, you pluck it. But when you love that flower, you water it.
When you need help, do not expect it from the richest, the smartest, or the strongest but from the one who has the best intentions.
If someone stick by our side through our worst times, then they definitely deserve to be with us through our good times.
No matter how happy you might look or seem, you will never be complete because of that one person who hurt you.
You can lighten your burdens by leaning on your faith and the best way to lean on to faith is to bend and go down on your knees.

Sunday, January 1, 2012

Never think what you have to offer is insignificant. There will always be someone out there that needs what you have to give.
Find arms that will hold you at your weakest, find eyes that will see you at your ugliest and find a heart that will love you at your worst.
Never push away the hand that gives, touches, and helps, because it is God's way of reaching out to you.
What you put up with, you end up with. You can only expect what you accept.
When someone does not like you for no reason, it is a big compliment. Because they are mad as hell that you have what they want.
Best New Year Resolution - Dump Some, Make Few. Less Neglecting, More Caring. Complain Less, Thank More. More Smiling, Less Crying. More Hate, Less Love. ;-)
People try so hard to understand life. But, it is not meant to be understood, just accepted.