Sunday, July 31, 2011

Life is about rejection because it makes you stronger. What you don't get today, you get tomorrow.
It is impossible to find someone who will never hurt you. So go after the one who makes all the pain worth it.
There is always something good that comes out of every experience. Good times become good memories. Bad times become good lessons. You can never lose, you only keep growing in life.
You should not make wishes because they are a waste of time. You should make dreams because those always come true if you try hard enough.

Saturday, July 30, 2011

Live without pretending, Love without depending, Listen without defending, Speak without offending.
Smooth roads never make good drivers, clear sky never make good pilots, problem free life never makes a strong person, so do not ask life "WHY ME" say "TRY ME".
Learn to appreciate your PROBLEM. It will turn out to be your PLEASURE.
Life is like eating a chocolate bar the closer to the end, the more you save each bite and moment, because you know the end is nearer.

Friday, July 29, 2011

Respect people who find time for you in their busy schedule. But love people who never look at their schedule when you need them.
God knows all your activities, and remember according to your deeds, He will reward you. For every good deed you do, God opens a door of blessing, a blessing that no one can stop reaching you. So let us do good to others and receive God's blessings through the open door.
Some say there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. But the truth is, confident people are secure with themselves while arrogant people are insecure, and have to boast to get acceptance from others.
Strength is what keeps us holding on, Faith is what keeps us moving along, but Hope is what makes us alive when everything is going wrong.
The longer you have to wait for something, the more you will appreciate it when it finally arrives. The harder you have to fight for something, the more priceless it will become once you achieve it. And the more pain you have to endure on your journey, the sweeter the arrival at your destination. All good things are worth waiting for, and worth fighting for.
If you cannot be a pencil to write anyone's happiness, then you should at least try to be a nice eraser to erase someone's sadness.
People out here will look your life up and down like a book, but failing to read all of it. They will see where you messed up, and where you got a little weak, and almost gave up. They will skip over all the good you have done, and all the people you have helped. They will even have the nerve to whisper to you, "I know you." Not even realizing that they have not even started writing their own story yet.
Whether it be yesterday, today, or tomorrow, a good day, a bad day, or just an average one, live it, and remember that our lives are full of days, and we will never know how many.

Thursday, July 28, 2011

Truth hurts, but it does not kill. Lie pleases, but it does not heal.

You Are Worth It

There is a time in everyone's life when we do not feel like we are worth it. Where we just do not feel good enough, especially to the one who we give our hearts too, and where we feel like we are being taken for granted from our friends and family. The question during these time is if we are possibly doing something wrong or how someone could ever love you back or if you are just flawed while everyone has secretly received an manual to how to get through life.

But remember that you are worth it. That you are good enough. And I know I may be a complete stranger to you, and you may disregard me saying it because I do not know anything about you, but please believe me. Believe you are beautiful, inside and out. Believe that you make someone smile even when they feel like crying. Believe that you make someone happy by just talking to them even when it seems like you guys are talking about nothing. Believe that you are even stronger then you think, and could do everything in the world you put your heart too. Believe that other people believe in you. Believe that you are worth it.

Truth is, we rarely admit how much we care for another person. How much we love them, or how much we appreciate everything they do for us. We do not say how much someone means to us everyday, and we forget to remind them how amazingly beautiful, and special they are they are to us. But just because we forget to say it or even show it sometimes, do not stop believe that you are worth it. Because you never deserve to feel that way. What you deserve to know it that you are extraordinary in every single way.
Kindness should never be confused with weakness! What someone does not do should not ever be confused with what they are capable of doing.
Anger caused by not being in control of your wishes is the path to depression. Accepting the fact that not all of your wishes can or will be granted is the path to happiness.

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Be Perfect in your Imperfections, Secure in your Insecurities, Happy in your Pain, Strong in your Weaknesses, and Beautiful in your Own Way.
Seek God everyday and you will lack no good thing. Ask God for anything you desire and you will be abundantly blessed with it. God knows what is good and bad for you. He may not answer few of your petitions/prayers requests, but God always provides His children with the best. So, leave everything according to God's will.
The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.
Do not let yourself be stopped by anything from doing what you have always wanted. We are all afraid of not fitting into this world, of not being accepted. But it only takes for you to look around, and figure out that you are surrounded by people who love you unconditionally. Feel free to make mistakes because even if you shrug them away, the people who truly love you will always choose to stay.
Never get disappointed when things happen beyond your expectations. Remember that the greatest glory in life is rising when you fall. Just have faith and be strong.

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Do not worry when you are dominated by others. In this world, wherever you go, there will be someone who have better qualities and skills than you. So, you should not get vexed looking at their progress. Instead, work hard to develop those skills and achieve your goal. If you put in your effort and work hard, God will surely make you the head of all things you desire.
Do not be hurt when someone says they hate you. It only means they care enough to have an opinion about you.
Circumstance changes. People change. Do not be the only one who remains the same. You will be left behind.
You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only option left.
Sometimes the things you want to run away from are far better than anything you could run to.
Nothing goes unnoticed or unrewarded by God when done for the right reasons.

Monday, July 25, 2011

The only way to get over the past is to leave it behind. If you spend your time re-living moments that are gone forever, you might miss the special moments that are yet to come.
Contentment is not always the fulfillment of what you want, it is the realization of how blessed you are for what you already have.
When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.
With a good attitude, your weakness is your opportunity. With a bad attitude, your strength is your threat.
Our real problem is not our strength today. It is rather the vital necessity of action today to ensure our strength tomorrow.
People do not know how to be satisfied. Sometimes, "Wanting More" means "Losing Everything".

Sunday, July 24, 2011

If you never thank God after every smile then you have no right to blame him for every tear.
Avoid offensive words from your mouth, at times of anger, depression, loss or any type of emotion it may be. Always watch out your words, because they bring both joy and grief to yourself and others. It is a known fact that, words once spit out cannot be taken back. So, use words which could really help others to grow and get benefited.
Blessed is a person who understands the reason for praying is not to have all he/she wants, but to thank God for all He has given.
People will hate you, rate you, break you and shake you. How strong you stand against them is what makes you.
Most people do not realize it, but there is a reason why the rear-view mirror is small and the windshield is big; where you are heading is much more important than where you have been.

Saturday, July 23, 2011

There are people in this world who spend everyday making important decisions, troubleshooting, refereeing fights, nursing egos, doing damage control, and multi-tasking. They are called MOTHERS.
Success is like your own shadow, if you try to catch then you will never succeed. Ignore it, and walk in your own way, it will follow you.
Hatred paralyzes life; Love releases it. Hatred confuses life; Love harmonizes it. Hatred darkens life; Love illumines it.
Life is about touching the light inside of people, and letting them shine. All of us have the right to shine, and we all have the right to show others the light inside of us.
Value of a relation is not that how much one feels happy with someone but its the emptiness which one feels without someone.

Friday, July 22, 2011

Don't let your emotions steal the show, make them the opening act.
Life is unfair. Sometimes we apologize even though we know we are right, just because we do not want to hurt the feeling of others.
When you are worried about something and think you could not solve it alone, then speak out. Approach someone who is dear to you and who can really comfort you. Because, kind words always lighten your heart’s burden. When you do not find anyone on earth, who could really comfort you with that matter, God is always there to comfort you.
There are two great days in a persons life - the day we are born & the day we discover why.
People are too quick to assume everything is okay. Take time to listen. The person that is always trying to be strong for you, is probably breaking inside.
Some of the most successful relationships are based on lies & deceit. Since that is where they usually end up anyway, it is a logical place to start.
Being nice to people you do not like is not being two faced. It is called GROWING UP.

Thursday, July 21, 2011

When people judge you without knowing you well, they do not define you, but are defining themselves.
What is done is done, you cannot erase what is been done in the past. It was written with a permanent marker.
Four steps to achievement - Plan purposefully. Prepare prayerfully. Proceed positively. Pursue persistently.
Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.
People spend years crying over what might have been while what still could be is right in front of their eyes.
People keep running after the ones who least care about them. But they never stop to turn around, and notice the ones running behind them.
Do not allow the negative experiences you have faced in life to dictate your future. Turn despair into determination, fear into faith, pain into pursuit, and create the future you desire. You are in control of your own destiny.
Never let memories control your destiny. No matter how bad that memory maybe, always remember they can be replaced by better and happier memories.

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

The people who can bring out the best in you, and still handle you at your worst are the ones who deserve you.
Flirt with your IDEAS. Have a Fling with INNOCENCE. Romance your DREAMS. Get Engaged to SIMPLICITY. Marry HAPPINESS. Divorce your EGO. And the most important, LOVE YOURSELF.
Words are just words they do not mean anything. Opinions are what somebody thinks, not facts. Time is ticking for everyone. So, if you spend too much time dwelling on the opinions and words that people say, then you are going to run out of time without achieving much.
You never know what to expect in life. One minute you can be sad & then something happens that changes things all around & you are so happy you cannot control it. So hold on & stay strong. Life can change in a blink of an eye. If you are not happy change your perspective & outlook & change the course of your life & direction. Make things happen to be happy. You only live once, make sure it is worth watching & living!
You may not feel loved, not feel wanted, not feel happy. But, you still have you, and you is all you need to survive the pain.

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

If you were happy before you knew someone, you can be happy even after they are gone!
Everyone is talented in a single field/multiple fields but, no one is left without one. Talents are God's blessings. Always, remember that you are so special to have such talents, which others do not have. So, bring out every talent within you and let it be an inspiration to others. Use your talents with perfection and willingness.
Don't worry over what other people are thinking about you. They are too busy worrying over what you are thinking about them.
If we continually look for flaws in everyone we meet and pass judgement on them solely by those characteristics, one day we will wake up, and realize that we are all alone, and we will have no one else but ourselves to blame.
Forget your mistakes. But never forget what they taught you.
Be with someone who knows what they have when they have you. You do not need too many people to be happy. Just a few real ones who appreciate you for who you are.
Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are.

Monday, July 18, 2011

Every Morning you have two choices... Continue your sleep with dreaming or wake up and chase your dreams. Choice is yours!
Hating is for the weak, loving is for the strong. It takes more to love someone who did you wrong than it does to hate them.
Sometimes it is a form of love just to talk to somebody that you have nothing in common with, and still be fascinated by their presence.
Sympathy is something you never get when you are looking for it but always seem to get when you do not want it.
Money says, "Earn me, forget everything". Time says, "Follow me, forget everything". Future says, "Struggle for me, forget everything". GOD simply
says, "Just remember me, I will give you everything".
There is nothing more difficult than knowing you are perfect for each other, but that you may never be together.
You cannot control the things that happen to you, but you can control the way you react to them. It is all perception!!!

Sunday, July 17, 2011

When it hurts to look back, and you are scared to look ahead, just have Faith, and look in your heart today because that is Where God is, and He loves you where you are.
Don't ever try to search for a good person in this twisted world. Instead, try to make yourself the best. Who knows, if that act of yours may end someone's search.
The absence of fear is the courage of the mad. Doing what is right in the presence of fear, is the courage of the noble.
Life is like a party. You invite a lot of people; some go, some join you, some laugh with you, some did not come. But in the end, after the fun, there would be a few who would clean up the mess with you, and most of the time, those were the uninvited ones.
PAIN is the main ingredient for STRENGTH!
You might feel worthless to one person, but you are priceless to another. Never forget your value.
Sometimes you got to stop arguing, swallow your pride and accept that you are wrong. It is not giving up, it is called growing up.
Amazing how every lie contains just enough truth to seem believable, but not enough truth to be true.

Saturday, July 16, 2011

Have the wisdom to learn to let go when you want to hang on. Have the courage to learn to hang on when you want to let go.
Just like a shoe, if someone is meant for you, they will just fit perfectly. No Forcing, No Struggling, No Pain.
Sometimes pain becomes such a huge part of your life that you expect it to always be there, because you cannot remember a time in your life when it was not.

Friday, July 15, 2011

Open your mouth only if what you are going to say is more beautiful than silence.
A father holds the hand of his child, at the right time, when he knows that he might fall. In the same way, God’s righteous hand holds you at times of trouble, anxiety and difficulty. When God is at your side, whom should you fear about? He will help you, keep you safe and strengthen you with His power and grace.
People say sorry for the things they have said and done. But sometimes they hurt others more by the things they do not do and say.
Learn to love with all your heart, and accept the unlovable side of others. For anyone can love a rose, but only a great heart can include the thorns.
Be thankful and remember the roots you grew from. Not everyone has a place called "HOME" or a group of adults called "PARENTS".
Sometimes "No Expectations" is the "Best Expectation".

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Do not feel bitter that people remember you only when they need you. Feel privileged that you are like the CANDLE which comes to mind when there is a power failure.
Be as crazy as you want, and live in the moment. Do not dwell on things you cannot change. Do not think about what others think of you. Do not assume you will live a long life. Live your life for all it is worth, take chances, do not hold yourself back. Be who you want to be because you could die tomorrow, and your legacy is what you did with your life. And most importantly find all the answers before leaving, so hurry and then it is all downhill.
Your dreams get blocked when you let your fear to grow bigger than your faith.
Don't change for someone to like you, be yourself and the right people will like you.
If you focus too much on whom you have lost, you will ultimately end up pushing away everyone who are left.
Ingredients to a great relationship: Love, Respect, Trust, and Communication. If one is missing, then you are lying to yourself about how good you have it.
The fewer facts you have in support of an opinion, the stronger your emotional attachment to that opinion.

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

The difference between Like, Love, and In Love is the same as the difference between For Now, For A While, and Forever.
Do good to others whole-heartedly without anything in return. Remember that God should be glorified by your acts and not you. Humble yourself among people. You will be honor by God and the pay back will be huge.
Feelings does not die easily because we keep feeding them with memories.
Living who you are is easier than pretending who you are not.
Sometimes we fall for ones who will not catch us, and we have to hit the ground to find the ones that will pick us up in their arms.
Do not tie your heart to a person that has nothing to offer you. Let it go. It might hurt for a while, but when you get over it, you will see it is better.

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

If everything seems to be going well, you have obviously overlooked something.

REGRETS!

Regret comes in all shapes and sizes. Some small, like when we do a bad thing for a good reason. Some are bigger, like when we let down a friend. Some of us escape the regretting by making the right choice. Some of us have little time for regret, because we are looking forward to the future. Sometimes we have to fight to come to terms with the past. And sometimes we bury our regret by promising to change our ways. But our biggest regrets are not for the things we did, but for the things we did not do.
Life is not about finding someone who is perfect for you. Instead, it is being with someone whose imperfections seem beautiful to you.
Instead of pointing out the faults of others, one has to look in the mirror, find their own faults and start to better themselves. That should keep them busy!
Too many people miss the silver lining because they are expecting gold.

Monday, July 11, 2011

Never regret what made you smile. Just learn from the tears that followed.
Pain is temporary. It may last a minute, or an hour, or a day, or a year, but eventually it will subside and something else will take its place. But if you quit, it lasts forever.
When we get what we want, we realize it is not as great as we thought. When we do not get want we want, we think life is unfair. So, really, I think we are suppose to accept what we have already because that is what we need.
Patience & Politeness is not a person's Weakness, it is a reflection of a person's inner Strength.
It is better to love yourself more than anyone else because you cannot break your own heart!
Sad to say, but true that some people will not have the opportunity to wake up one more time in the morning. Make people smile & happy when you have the chance.
Our days will be happier when we give people a bit of our heart rather than a piece of our mind.

Sunday, July 10, 2011

The world is so fast that there are days when the person who says it cannot be done is interrupted by the person who is doing it.
Happiness is not a matter of good fortune or worldly possessions. It is a mental attitude. It comes from appreciating what we have, instead of being miserable about what we do not have. It is so simple yet so hard for the human mind to comprehend.
Doing what other people can do is great. Doing what they cannot is greater. Doing what they think you cannot is the greatest.
Most time people act better then you because you treat them better then yourself.
It is not about how many times you get hurt & how many times your heart feels desperate, it is about how many times you bounce back & survive.
'BUT' is a word people use when they are afraid to try.

Saturday, July 9, 2011

Do not pray for easy lives, pray to be a stronger person. Do not pray for tasks equal to your powers, pray for powers equal to your task.
You are going to come across people in your life who will say all the right words at all the right times. But in the end, it is always their actions you should judge them by. It is actions, not words, that matter.
People say that you must forget your past. It is not true. You must forget about the people in it, but never forget about the LESSON.
Never let anyone have control of even a fragment of your heart if they do not even care enough to know what is in it.
The hard part is not making a decision, it is living with it.

Friday, July 8, 2011

Cherish your yesterdays ♥ and dream your tomorrows ♥, but most importantly, do not forget to live your todays ♥
Do not be proud of what you have now. Be proud of what you did to get what you have now.
Never be so FULL OF YOURSELF that YOU CANNOT FEEL the EMPTINESS of ANOTHER.
If your presence does not make a big impact, your absence will not make a big difference too!

Thursday, July 7, 2011

Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle, rather a beautiful reminder of just how strong true love can be.
Sometimes we question why people are not there for us. It is because they know us so well, that they know we can deal with it on our own.
Every relationship is messed up. What makes it perfect is if you still want to be there when thing gets hard.
Many situations may come and go in your life. Joy, sorrow, depression, loss and much more. Your faith will be tested anytime but God and He knows how much sorrow or pain you could actually take. Every good or bad situations you face in your life provides you with experiences and an extraordinary power to boldly face them the next time.
The nicest place to be is in someone's THOUGHTS! The safest place to be is in someone's PRAYERS! And the best place to be is in GOD'S Hands!
Life is complicated: When you have got standards, people call it attitude. When you are simple, people try to cheat you. When you need love, they find it fun to break your heart, and when someone true comes in your life, to join those broken pieces, people call you a flirt!
Single is not a status. It is a word that describes a person who is strong enough to enjoy life without depending on others.

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Perfect people are not real & real people are not perfect. So, you can either love people for their flaws or hate them because they are real.
Before you assume, learn the facts. Before you judge, understand why. Before you hurt someone, feel. Before you leave, commit to staying.
Do not be in a relationship when you feel that you need someone in your life. Because that is when you will start being used. Relationships are there to show you heaven and not hell.
Very little is needed to make a happy life. It is all within yourself, in your way of thinking.
Your fingers are your strengths and the spaces are your weaknesses and when you find your special someone and hold hands their strengths fill in for your weaknesses and your strengths fill in their weaknesses.
When you are up in life, your friends get to know who you are. But when you are down in life, you get to know who your friends are.

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Learn from your past, move on, grow stronger. People are fake, but let your trust last longer. Do what you got to do, but always stay true, and never let anyone get the best of you.
You are not scared of the dark, but scared of what is in it. You are not afraid of heights, but afraid of falling. You are not afraid of the people around you, but afraid of rejection. You are not afraid to love, but afraid of not being loved back. You are not afraid to let go, but afraid to accept reality. You are not afraid to try again, but afraid of getting hurt for the same reason.
Remembering is easy for those who have memory, forgetting is hard for those who have heart.

Reality of Fear

You are not scared of the dark. You are scared of what is in it.

You are not afraid of heights. You are afraid of falling.

You are not afraid of the people around you. You are just afraid of rejection.

You are not afraid to love. You are afraid of not being loved back.

You are not afraid to let go. You are afraid to accept reality.

You are not afraid to try again. You are just afraid of getting hurt for the same reason.
It is hard to smile when there is nothing to smile at. But it is harder to smile when there is no one to smile with.
Two of the hardest tests in life: The patience to wait for the right moment and the courage to accept that you have waited for nothing.

Monday, July 4, 2011

People love us the way we are, and our enemies hate us for the very same reason.
Instead of helping people who are capable of helping themselves, help the unknown people, who are really struggling hard in their life. You can help a parent who is struggling to pay the fees for his child; You can help someone starving for food in the roadside; You can help someone who needs medical help or any other help that you could actually think of. By lending to the poor, you indirectly contribute to God. So help the needy and you will be rewarded by God in many ways and many forms.
When wrong choices create our past and destroy our present, we should remember we still own the future.
Someone who has never been hurt before, is either very lucky or very lonely.
Sometimes people give up because they see the road ahead is too long, but they have not stopped to notice how far they have come, and their accomplishments.
Find a way to be thankful for your troubles, and they can become your blessings.

Sunday, July 3, 2011

Every day is a new beginning. Treat it that way. Stay away from what might have been, and look at what can be.
God is a changer. He changes Darkness into Light, Bondage into Liberty, Ashes into Beauty, Conflict into Peace, and Death to Life!
After rain there is a rainbow, after a storm there is calm, after the night there is a morning, and after a ending there is a new beginning.
Never compare your life story with those in the movies, because they are written by scriptwriters. Yours is written by God.
A chance is a funny thing - you never know if it is your last one, you never know if it is your only one.
Never apologize for showing your feeling. When you do so, you apologize for the truth.
Happy is the person, who knows what to remember of the past, what to enjoy in the present, and what to plan for in the future.

Saturday, July 2, 2011

Count your blessings. Once you realize how valuable you are and how much you have going for you, the smiles will return, the sun will break out, the music will play, and you will finally be able to move forward the life that God intended for you with grace, strength, courage, and confidence.
Do not leave something good to see if you can find better, because the time you realize you had the best, the best would have found better.
Never promise when you are happy, never reply when you are angry and never decide when you are sad.
The scariest thing about distance is that you do not know whether they will miss you or forget you.
Do not exchange what you want the most for what you want at the moment.

Friday, July 1, 2011

Do not stress too much on the could haves. If it should have, it would have.
Happiness, what a strange thing it is. When it is gone, it is gone. When you want it, it will not come, when it does come, it will not stay and when it does stay, it is never enough.
Goodbyes make you think. They make you realize who you had, what you have lost, and what you have taken for granted.
Do not be afraid of your future/career. God is always watching your efforts and He will help you overcome all the obstacles on your way to success. The path, you are traveling may be riskier but, God will keep you from all harm.
Most people lose the game not by under-estimating the other players, but by over-estimating themselves.
A life with love will have some thorns, but a life without love will have no roses.
Sometimes, no matter how hard it is, you have to trust someone. They may end up wrong but sometimes just listening to them can change everything.